Hard work in the family

 We end up having a lot of things from our families. we get a family culture, way of working, behaving, examples of how to deal with difficulties, religious perspectives, and many other things. All of those things you could have either the good or the bad version of it when one becomes a blessing and the other one a burden. Examples of that are not having enough practice or probably even a bad example of how to deal with disagreement. Because that can be very hard when you are trying to build relationships that are meant to last like marriage or even just dealing with friends or siblings. if you do not know how to deal healthily with that, you might end up breaking those bonds that are precious to us and you won't get to see beautiful things in those cases because we do not have good tools. However, many things are good we could get from the good things we learn in our families. One of them that I would like to focus more on today, is hard work. the good thing about hard work is that we can accomplish wonders with it, especially if we learn there are many things we can work hard about. And at the same time, there are a lot of difficulties we are going to face if we do not cultivate or have in our families the culture of working hard. 

Some of the good things we can have from habits of hard work are pretty obvious. Like you might be able to find jobs because you will be in a good reputation as a good asset to however you may want to work with, you may have higher odds having your own company because you can make it work. You are most likely to finish your education because you do not quit due to your habit of working through hard things, and you might be good at doing chores. But I think the true blessing of hard-working is a little more un perceptible but equally or even more valuable. You might be able to work harder for someone you love like children or spouse, you may build a lot more discipline which will help you have control of your life if your family love and teaches you to do hard work you will love working instead of looking at it as a responsibility. In small words, if you are a parent, this is something you want to work on for your children. Because besides patience and discipline, hard work can be one of the most valuable aspects of life they can learn in their early years for success in life. 

At the same time, you or your family if you are the parent, could miss so much in life if they are not taught these things. If they think that work is something they have to get rid of as quickly as they can so that they can enjoy their free time, is not bad. the only problem with that is they are too close to the edge of liking to work or disliking it and doing it for a responsibility. This might sound weird, love work they said, but I am not talking about necessarily loving and oppressing a job or an inconvenient schedule or bad coworkers. The important aspect of this virtue of hard-working is that you can hard work in any aspect of your life. You could really hard work for your family, and that is the greatest goal in my opinion. to be able to work in your family instead of for anything else.