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Sexual intimacy

 The differences between man and woman are many, some of them are more obvious than others to the point that is known and talks by everyone. Other differences are more hided or even considered taboo. The one that we are been discussed today is intimacy or sex. The way we are going to approach this is by seeing the difference between man and woman in this topic, and the opportunities that come with this beautiful experience.  Some of the differences will create problems if they are not treated, but some of them might be opportunities for progress. Several of those differences are related to the climax, arousal, and even chemical presence in our nervous system. We know that men are usually more prompted to reach the climax at a faster rate than their counter-type. The men feel arousal more frequently, which means they would want to have sexual intimacy more frequently than women. The climax is harder for women to achieve, but they can repeat that experience in shorter intervals....

preparing for marriage instead of a wedding?

 After dating and courtship, the next step is to get engaged, and after that obviously, get married. Now there are several factors of vital value that are related to that period. How we use our time there will be helpful for our future or it could also be a problem. The first one to consider is to prepare a wedding, which will involve several important decisions. And those are important not because the wedding itself is important, but the consequences in that decision can make a big difference. The second is how we prepare for our marriage more than anything else. that is the perfect time to put things in perspective and practice more what is like to be married. And third is important to be careful with that period and as we spent more time with our fiance and how we protect some boundaries.  The wedding day is a very special moment for the couple and everyone should celebrate the fact that they are choosing to honor such a beautiful decision. It is known that most of the time...

Dating and Marriage

 It is well known that dating is a precursor of marriage. There are several steps before marriage like dating, courtship which is a little more focused on what is been expected of the time spent together, engagement and marriage. Even though if you share that with someone they would probably agree with that concept, is not as common practice as it use to be before. Sadly nowadays people are more prompted to want a quicker result with fewer possible negative outcomes. If they can get what marriage can offer, but without the possible consequences if "It does not work" they will opt for that. That is what we know as cohabitating. That practice has many disadvantages that will happen, they are not a matter of if they get to happen, but when they happen. Some of those would be caused by the important factor in marriage which is commitment. If you notice, a couple that chooses to marry is choosing to commit even in the hard times. They put things in place to make sure that they wil...

Gender and who we are.

 To talk about this topic I would like to approach it differently first. It is in the nature of humankind to try to understand what is true and what is a lie. We like to categorize what is good and what is bad because that will influence a lot in the way we behave, and also how we treat others. The problem with that is that we end up doing it wrong sometimes because we do not have all the information or we try to look for answers in a not accurate way. I am not claiming that I have all the knowledge, but I feel I have been able to feel and see the truth from several things. The reason why I approach this topic like this is that in the last two or three decades, humankind has been way more interested in finding the truth of where gender comes from. And as I said is a natural thing to try to find the reality in those questions. Is gender assigned before we are born? is it something fluid that we can mold? I will try to approach this with my own knowledge. Gender is the group of chara...