Some important things about families

 The differences between man and woman are many, some of them are more obvious than others to the point that is known and talks by everyone. Other differences are more hided or even considered taboo. The one that we are been discussed today is intimacy or sex. The way we are going to approach this is by seeing the difference between man and woman in this topic, and the opportunities that come with this beautiful experience.  Some of the differences will create problems if they are not treated, but some of them might be opportunities for progress. Several of those differences are related to the climax, arousal, and even chemical presence in our nervous system. We know that men are usually more prompted to reach the climax at a faster rate than their counter-type. The men feel arousal more frequently, which means they would want to have sexual intimacy more frequently than women. The climax is harder for women to achieve, but they can repeat that experience in shorter intervals....

 After dating and courtship, the next step is to get engaged, and after that obviously, get married. Now there are several factors of vital value that are related to that period. How we use our time there will be helpful for our future or it could also be a problem. The first one to consider is to prepare a wedding, which will involve several important decisions. And those are important not because the wedding itself is important, but the consequences in that decision can make a big difference. The second is how we prepare for our marriage more than anything else. that is the perfect time to put things in perspective and practice more what is like to be married. And third is important to be careful with that period and as we spent more time with our fiance and how we protect some boundaries.  The wedding day is a very special moment for the couple and everyone should celebrate the fact that they are choosing to honor such a beautiful decision. It is known that most of the time...

 It is well known that dating is a precursor of marriage. There are several steps before marriage like dating, courtship which is a little more focused on what is been expected of the time spent together, engagement and marriage. Even though if you share that with someone they would probably agree with that concept, is not as common practice as it use to be before. Sadly nowadays people are more prompted to want a quicker result with fewer possible negative outcomes. If they can get what marriage can offer, but without the possible consequences if "It does not work" they will opt for that. That is what we know as cohabitating. That practice has many disadvantages that will happen, they are not a matter of if they get to happen, but when they happen. Some of those would be caused by the important factor in marriage which is commitment. If you notice, a couple that chooses to marry is choosing to commit even in the hard times. They put things in place to make sure that they wil...

 To talk about this topic I would like to approach it differently first. It is in the nature of humankind to try to understand what is true and what is a lie. We like to categorize what is good and what is bad because that will influence a lot in the way we behave, and also how we treat others. The problem with that is that we end up doing it wrong sometimes because we do not have all the information or we try to look for answers in a not accurate way. I am not claiming that I have all the knowledge, but I feel I have been able to feel and see the truth from several things. The reason why I approach this topic like this is that in the last two or three decades, humankind has been way more interested in finding the truth of where gender comes from. And as I said is a natural thing to try to find the reality in those questions. Is gender assigned before we are born? is it something fluid that we can mold? I will try to approach this with my own knowledge. Gender is the group of chara...

 Several factors make a family what it is. Some of them are good and some of them are bad. But either way, they are a part of who are as individuals and as a family, or even communities. But do we have to be that? All of those factors make a what we call culture. However, we have heard that culture is the group of characteristics of a community like a language, foods, rituals, habits, and many other things. And that knowledge is correct, but not complete. because if you notice those things mold a family's life, and then eventually the family will grow and increase the people in the community and carry on those factors, so the families end up influencing the culture around them. It is a circle of we must be aware of. And why? Because we can have control of that and change the culture of our homes if they are bad.  There are so many ways to interact with a family that each family will always be unique. Sadly, people are often comfortable with the things they know and not with ne...

 Have you noticed there are roles inside a family? It does not matter the family you will always find something in common. And no, I do not mean the roles like every family has parents or children. I mean roles like being a peacemaker, or the clown of the family, maybe even the trouble maker and the listener. Things like that are necessary for a family and will present in some way. But why does that happen? I think is interesting that families are unique but at the same time very similar. they will all have a different experience but you could easily group those things for being common in families. Some of those are BBQ or fights, movie nights, or wrestling in the living room. Things like that are an essential part of the families.  Let's discuss why. There are two roles that I think are essential among children. The first one is the peacemaker. This one is especially important when the family has more than one child. because even though siblings love each other, there might b...

Certain beliefs have followed people's minds for as long as humans have had a tongue to speak. Some of those are the desire of having families, to have a companion from the opposite sex to love and be able to procreate with. Another could be that we are creatures of groups and we do better in families and communities. Together with those ideas, we have the natural desire and goal to make those things thrive and prosper. We all want our families to be happy and safe, or even the communities to be safe for our families so that they can grow and create bonds with other people in good and healthy environments. And for years that has been a path to follow for humankind. Other smaller characteristics create and allow us to have those results, but what happens if step by step those start changing? What would be the result and how that could change the goal for families and communities? Today I would like to touch on two of those topics. One is the desire to procreate or have children. And...